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My partner was unfaithful. Should I stay or should I go?

Aug 23, 2023

You have just found out your partner has been unfaithful. Or maybe you have known for a long time. You may be wondering if you should try to work it out or just call it quits.

What will happen to the kids?

What will my friends and family think?

What kind of relationship will we have if I stay?

What about finances if I decide to go? 

You’ve been spinning in your mind about what to do. One day you’re sure you want to work it out, the next day you just want out. You wonder what you did wrong. You wonder why you weren’t enough for your partner. You wonder if you can ever trust again. You wonder if you’re ever going to feel normal again. You’ve looked everywhere for answers. 

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But you’re still stuck.

I can help.

After working with me, you’ll have the tools to confidently move forward and make decisions about your relationship. Should you stay or should you leave? Only you can decide, but I can help you uncover the thoughts that are keeping you stuck and help you get to a place where you can make this decision with confidence. And feel peace. Either way. 

My program is the solution for men and women who want to move forward after betrayal. This program is for anyone who wants to leave the hurt behind and be happy again!

How does it work?

For ten weeks I will coach you one on one for an hour each week via Zoom. You will have a short reading assignment and a worksheet to complete each week. I will help you uncover the thoughts that are causing you pain and keeping you from moving forward. Because I have been where you are, I can help you understand your thoughts and help you see things in new ways that will help you move forward.

Woman Breathing Fresh Air — El Paso, TX — Kristin Romney Coaching

Why does it hurt so much so much?

23 Aug, 2023
Without a doubt, infidelity hurts. A lot. But it may not be for the reasons you think.
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Can my spouse change or “once a cheater always a cheater”?

23 Aug, 2023
This is a question I hear often from my clients. The short answer is yes. If they want to. True change has to come from within your spouse. It’s important for you, the betrayed spouse, to know that you cannot control whether or not your spouse will change. Here’s what you can control: whether or not you will change. Even if you have done nothing wrong, you are part of a dynamic that exists in your marriage. When you change, the dynamic also changes. Your spouse will then have to adapt to the new dynamic. When this happens, your marriage will begin to change for the better or it will end. Either way, you’ll have your answer. I am not suggesting you can fix your marriage all by yourself. A marriage does take two people doing the work, (and your spouse will have definitely have their work to do) but you can only control your part. Focusing on your spouse’s work is a waste of emotional energy. You are responsible only for yourself.
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